There are 9 reasons that will tell you why people are afraid of death
(1) people can't understand the fear itself -
.........darr aapki shadow jaisa hota hain....nonsubstantial....lekin kabhi kabhi Shadow ka bhi aap par bada prabhav hota hai....jungle me jab raat ho jati hai to aap apni hi shadow se darr jaate ho !! Ek sunsaan raaste me, ek sunsaan jagah par aap apni hi Shadow se darr kar bhagne lagte ho...aapka bhagna hakikat hai...aapka bachna hakikat hai...lekin karan nahi....
Aap bhag jaate ho ek rope ( rassi) se dar kar ki ye snake hai...lekin jab aap wapas aate ho aur dekhte ho...to aap apni hi bewakoofi par hasne lagte ho...
Yahi karan hai aapke darr ka...ki aap darr ko pehchaan nahi paate....
(2) people have a physical armour -
Mai janta hu ki yaha har koi dara hua hai...lekin sabke paas apna apna armour (कवच) hai...aur iske karan bhi hai...sabse, pehle jab bachcha janam leta hai...to wo is duniya ke baare me kuch nhi janta..hamare liye bhale hi wo hamare liye bhale hi wo 9 mahine hi ho..par us bachhe ke liye wo anant kaal hota hai..na hi wo koi calendar janta hai..na hi koi minutes, hours, days,....wah 9 mahine safety se rehke aaya hai..bina koi responsibility ke..lekin tabhi wo is duniya me aa jata hai...jaha wo har cheez ke liye dusro par depend hai...it is natural that he will feel afraid...wo bina kisi ki sahayata se nhi reh sakta...automatically he starts creating an armour... Jaise use akele sona padta hai..andhera hote hi wo darr jata hai..but, uske saath uska teddy bear hota hai ..wo khudko manata hai..samjhata hai ki wo akela nhi h uske saath uska teddy bear hai...aapne dekha hoga bachho ko railway station par ya airports par..do you thnk it is just a toy?? Aapke liye hoga..lekin us bachhe ke liye nahi jo ki teddy bear ko apna best friend samajhta hai..ek aisa frnd jab uske saath koi nhi hoga to wo uska saath dega..raat ke andhere me bhi..he will create psychological teddy bear...aur yaad rakhna bade log sochte hai ki unke paas koi teddy bear nhi h..wo galat hai..jaise us bachhe ka armour teddy bear hai..waise hi hamara bhagwan hai...jaise wo bachha teddy ko bestfrnd manta hai..waise hi ham bhagwan ko..hamari prayers hamare mantra hamare armour hi to hai.... Aur isliye ham darr se bhagna chahte hai...jis din ham ye apne saare armour chhod denge..us din se hme darr nhi lagega...
(3) There is not fear of death, there is fear of time
Actually logo ko darr death ka nhi time ka h..koi death se nhi darta h..aap us cheez se kaise darr sakte ho, jisko aap nhi jante..jisko aapne mahsoos hi nhi kiya h..time Passing means life passing..tab darr lagta h..fear basically aapko iska h ki aap abhi jeene ke yogya nhi ho..kahne ka mtlab h ki time pass hota ja rha h..aur apni life ko enjoy nhi kr paa rhe ho aur dheere life chhoti hoti jaa rhi h..aapko darr lagta h unlived life ka...lekin agar aap apni life ko enjoy kr rhe ho..har moment ko enjoy kr rhe ho..to aapko darr nhi lagega..kyuki aapne life jee li h..aapko pta h ki life kya hai...isliye yahi karan h ki logo ko darr lagta h sirf is wajah se ki wo apni life ko enjoy nhi kar paa rha h..chahe koi bhi wajah ho....
(4) people try to eliminate fear but they can't do it
fear kabhi bhi eliminate nhi ho sakta...aap kabhi bhi darr se lad nhi sakte directly..bohot se logo ke upar jab darr havi ho jata h to wo log apne darr se ladne ki koshish krte h, lekin usko samajhne ki koshish nhi krte..ise aise samajhiye....fear is like darkness..aap aas paas andhera h to aap talwar lekr usse ladne nhi ja sakte..aap hawa me talwar chalaoge to thak jaoge..lad lad ke thak jaoge..lekin darkness ko nhi bhaga paoge..aap confuse ho jaoge..kyu??
kyuki aapne darkness se ladne ki koshish ki h use samajhne ki nhi..aapne apne darr se ladne ki koshish ki h, use samajhne ki nhi...aap agar apne fear ko samajhke deep me jaane ki koshish kroge to samjh aayega darr kya hai...tab aap andhere me light jalaoge..aur andhera chale jaayega...sirf darr ko samajhne se hi aapke darr dur ho sakta h..lekin log darr se ladne lag jaate h..aur darr unke upar havi ho jata h...
(5)fear is always around some desire
Darr kya hai ?? agar aap famous banna chahte hai...tab darr hai.. agar aap famous nhi ban paate ho to ?? to darr aa jata hai..agar aap sabse amir banna chahte ho..lekin agar aap nhi ban paaye to ?? to darr lagne lag jayega...yahi to wajah hai..logo ki desire khatam nhi hoti..logo ki jaroorate khtm nhi hoti ??har koi swarg jana chahta hai...lekin darr h ki nhi jaa paaye to..yashi darr death ka h..log jeena chhod dete hai..is darr ke chakkar me..if u start living in the moment, fear disappears..desire creats the fear..
(6) one is afraid of death bcoz one is unaware of what life is
actually agar aap jante h ki life kya hai..aur aap isse aware hai..to aapko ye bhi pta hoga death kya h..lekin problem ye h ki hme aaj tak kisi ne nhi bataya ki how to live right now....kisi ne nhi bataya...na teachers ne na parents ne..kisi ne nhi...jab aap bachhe the to wo aapko batate the ki jab aap bade ho jaoge to janoge ki life kya h?? ...lekin jab aap young hue to aapko bola gya ki jab bhuddhe ho jaoge tab janoge ki life kya h? ...koi bhi usi time nhi batata ki life kya hai?...
mai jab bhi in sab cheezo ke baare me sawal puchhta hu to log mujhe kehte ki pehle tu bda hoja...pahle bda hoja..bas aise keh ke taal dete hai...logo ko nhi pta ki life kya hai..aur na hi log janne ki koshish krte hai h...isliye log death se bhi darte hai.
(7) people are afraid bcoz of their psychological pain
kya aapne kabhi observe kiya hai ki problem tabhi aati hai jab aap iske baare me sochte ho...agar aap old age ke baare me sochte ho to darr jate ho lekin bhudhhe log pareshaan nhi hai.....agar aap bimar hone ke baare me sochte ho darr jate ho..lekin jab bimar hote ho to itna pareshaan nhi hote...aise hi aap death ke baare me sochte ho..to darr jate ho..lekin aapko nhi pta ki death ke baad actually hoga kya..fir bhi darr jate ho..kyu ??
Darr hamesha future ke liye hota h, present ke liye nhi,,isliye log future ke baare me sochte hue death se darr jate h...keval dimag me hi jo ideas hote h wo hi aapko dara dete hai..wo hi darr paida krte hai..
(8) people are not courageous
log kabhi bhi sach janne ki koshish nhi krte...logo ko bachpan me jo rataya jata hai..wo hi yaad rahta h unko..we are cowards..isliye hm kisi bhi answer ko accept kar lete hai..Mahavira, Buddha, Christ...we accept their answers lekin unke answers hamare answers nhi hote..kisi dusre ki knowledge apni knowledge nhi ho sakti..tumhe sach janna hi padega..warna tum isi tarah death se darte jaoge...lekin hamara dimag hme ye krne nhi deta..hame rok deta hai..ki ham haar jayenge..aur ham apne dimag ki sun lete hai..par dil ki nhi..
aur parents kabhi bhi sach janne nhi dete..actually unhe bhi nhi pta..wo bhi hamko wo hi batate h jo unke maa baap ne bataya...sab apne maa baap ki baaton ko follow krte hai..isliye log death se darr jaate hai..kyuki unhone kabhi deeply jane ki koshsish nhi ki...kisko pta death buri hi hoti hai..kisko pta ?? kisko pta iske aage achhi cheez ho...lekin pta krne ki koshish koi nhi karta..
(9) people afraid to make love and trust
Darr usko lagta hai jo kabhi trust nhi krta na hi love karta hai...ye bohot hi fact cheez hai ki logo ko ek dusre par trust krne se darr lagta h kyu?? kyuki logo ko khudki intelligence par bharosa nhi h ki wo dhokha kha jayenge..unhe dar lagta hai ki bharosa krne par unhe dhokha bhi mil sakta hai..unhe khud ki intelligence par bharosa nhi hai..ki wo dhokha kha sakte hai...
there is only one thing in life that conquers death and that is love..mai aap sabko ek hi baat bolunga..ki fear ko itni attention mt do..agar aap sochte ho ki aapko death se darr lagta h to aap sachmuch me darte jaoge...isliye is par dhyan mt do..bas pyaar karo..har kisi se..unconditionally...aur dekho tumhe darr nhi lagega...magic h love me..trust me..jo bhi aapko darata hai uske andar jao...saare safety measures ek taraf krke..darr me ghus jao...aur dekho ki kya hai ??
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(1) people can't understand the fear itself -
.........darr aapki shadow jaisa hota hain....nonsubstantial....lekin kabhi kabhi Shadow ka bhi aap par bada prabhav hota hai....jungle me jab raat ho jati hai to aap apni hi shadow se darr jaate ho !! Ek sunsaan raaste me, ek sunsaan jagah par aap apni hi Shadow se darr kar bhagne lagte ho...aapka bhagna hakikat hai...aapka bachna hakikat hai...lekin karan nahi....
Aap bhag jaate ho ek rope ( rassi) se dar kar ki ye snake hai...lekin jab aap wapas aate ho aur dekhte ho...to aap apni hi bewakoofi par hasne lagte ho...
Yahi karan hai aapke darr ka...ki aap darr ko pehchaan nahi paate....
Mai janta hu ki yaha har koi dara hua hai...lekin sabke paas apna apna armour (कवच) hai...aur iske karan bhi hai...sabse, pehle jab bachcha janam leta hai...to wo is duniya ke baare me kuch nhi janta..hamare liye bhale hi wo hamare liye bhale hi wo 9 mahine hi ho..par us bachhe ke liye wo anant kaal hota hai..na hi wo koi calendar janta hai..na hi koi minutes, hours, days,....wah 9 mahine safety se rehke aaya hai..bina koi responsibility ke..lekin tabhi wo is duniya me aa jata hai...jaha wo har cheez ke liye dusro par depend hai...it is natural that he will feel afraid...wo bina kisi ki sahayata se nhi reh sakta...automatically he starts creating an armour... Jaise use akele sona padta hai..andhera hote hi wo darr jata hai..but, uske saath uska teddy bear hota hai ..wo khudko manata hai..samjhata hai ki wo akela nhi h uske saath uska teddy bear hai...aapne dekha hoga bachho ko railway station par ya airports par..do you thnk it is just a toy?? Aapke liye hoga..lekin us bachhe ke liye nahi jo ki teddy bear ko apna best friend samajhta hai..ek aisa frnd jab uske saath koi nhi hoga to wo uska saath dega..raat ke andhere me bhi..he will create psychological teddy bear...aur yaad rakhna bade log sochte hai ki unke paas koi teddy bear nhi h..wo galat hai..jaise us bachhe ka armour teddy bear hai..waise hi hamara bhagwan hai...jaise wo bachha teddy ko bestfrnd manta hai..waise hi ham bhagwan ko..hamari prayers hamare mantra hamare armour hi to hai.... Aur isliye ham darr se bhagna chahte hai...jis din ham ye apne saare armour chhod denge..us din se hme darr nhi lagega...
(3) There is not fear of death, there is fear of time
Actually logo ko darr death ka nhi time ka h..koi death se nhi darta h..aap us cheez se kaise darr sakte ho, jisko aap nhi jante..jisko aapne mahsoos hi nhi kiya h..time Passing means life passing..tab darr lagta h..fear basically aapko iska h ki aap abhi jeene ke yogya nhi ho..kahne ka mtlab h ki time pass hota ja rha h..aur apni life ko enjoy nhi kr paa rhe ho aur dheere life chhoti hoti jaa rhi h..aapko darr lagta h unlived life ka...lekin agar aap apni life ko enjoy kr rhe ho..har moment ko enjoy kr rhe ho..to aapko darr nhi lagega..kyuki aapne life jee li h..aapko pta h ki life kya hai...isliye yahi karan h ki logo ko darr lagta h sirf is wajah se ki wo apni life ko enjoy nhi kar paa rha h..chahe koi bhi wajah ho....
(4) people try to eliminate fear but they can't do it
fear kabhi bhi eliminate nhi ho sakta...aap kabhi bhi darr se lad nhi sakte directly..bohot se logo ke upar jab darr havi ho jata h to wo log apne darr se ladne ki koshish krte h, lekin usko samajhne ki koshish nhi krte..ise aise samajhiye....fear is like darkness..aap aas paas andhera h to aap talwar lekr usse ladne nhi ja sakte..aap hawa me talwar chalaoge to thak jaoge..lad lad ke thak jaoge..lekin darkness ko nhi bhaga paoge..aap confuse ho jaoge..kyu??
kyuki aapne darkness se ladne ki koshish ki h use samajhne ki nhi..aapne apne darr se ladne ki koshish ki h, use samajhne ki nhi...aap agar apne fear ko samajhke deep me jaane ki koshish kroge to samjh aayega darr kya hai...tab aap andhere me light jalaoge..aur andhera chale jaayega...sirf darr ko samajhne se hi aapke darr dur ho sakta h..lekin log darr se ladne lag jaate h..aur darr unke upar havi ho jata h...
(5)fear is always around some desire
Darr kya hai ?? agar aap famous banna chahte hai...tab darr hai.. agar aap famous nhi ban paate ho to ?? to darr aa jata hai..agar aap sabse amir banna chahte ho..lekin agar aap nhi ban paaye to ?? to darr lagne lag jayega...yahi to wajah hai..logo ki desire khatam nhi hoti..logo ki jaroorate khtm nhi hoti ??har koi swarg jana chahta hai...lekin darr h ki nhi jaa paaye to..yashi darr death ka h..log jeena chhod dete hai..is darr ke chakkar me..if u start living in the moment, fear disappears..desire creats the fear..
(6) one is afraid of death bcoz one is unaware of what life is
actually agar aap jante h ki life kya hai..aur aap isse aware hai..to aapko ye bhi pta hoga death kya h..lekin problem ye h ki hme aaj tak kisi ne nhi bataya ki how to live right now....kisi ne nhi bataya...na teachers ne na parents ne..kisi ne nhi...jab aap bachhe the to wo aapko batate the ki jab aap bade ho jaoge to janoge ki life kya h?? ...lekin jab aap young hue to aapko bola gya ki jab bhuddhe ho jaoge tab janoge ki life kya h? ...koi bhi usi time nhi batata ki life kya hai?...
mai jab bhi in sab cheezo ke baare me sawal puchhta hu to log mujhe kehte ki pehle tu bda hoja...pahle bda hoja..bas aise keh ke taal dete hai...logo ko nhi pta ki life kya hai..aur na hi log janne ki koshish krte hai h...isliye log death se bhi darte hai.
(7) people are afraid bcoz of their psychological pain
kya aapne kabhi observe kiya hai ki problem tabhi aati hai jab aap iske baare me sochte ho...agar aap old age ke baare me sochte ho to darr jate ho lekin bhudhhe log pareshaan nhi hai.....agar aap bimar hone ke baare me sochte ho darr jate ho..lekin jab bimar hote ho to itna pareshaan nhi hote...aise hi aap death ke baare me sochte ho..to darr jate ho..lekin aapko nhi pta ki death ke baad actually hoga kya..fir bhi darr jate ho..kyu ??
Darr hamesha future ke liye hota h, present ke liye nhi,,isliye log future ke baare me sochte hue death se darr jate h...keval dimag me hi jo ideas hote h wo hi aapko dara dete hai..wo hi darr paida krte hai..
(8) people are not courageous
log kabhi bhi sach janne ki koshish nhi krte...logo ko bachpan me jo rataya jata hai..wo hi yaad rahta h unko..we are cowards..isliye hm kisi bhi answer ko accept kar lete hai..Mahavira, Buddha, Christ...we accept their answers lekin unke answers hamare answers nhi hote..kisi dusre ki knowledge apni knowledge nhi ho sakti..tumhe sach janna hi padega..warna tum isi tarah death se darte jaoge...lekin hamara dimag hme ye krne nhi deta..hame rok deta hai..ki ham haar jayenge..aur ham apne dimag ki sun lete hai..par dil ki nhi..
aur parents kabhi bhi sach janne nhi dete..actually unhe bhi nhi pta..wo bhi hamko wo hi batate h jo unke maa baap ne bataya...sab apne maa baap ki baaton ko follow krte hai..isliye log death se darr jaate hai..kyuki unhone kabhi deeply jane ki koshsish nhi ki...kisko pta death buri hi hoti hai..kisko pta ?? kisko pta iske aage achhi cheez ho...lekin pta krne ki koshish koi nhi karta..
(9) people afraid to make love and trust
Darr usko lagta hai jo kabhi trust nhi krta na hi love karta hai...ye bohot hi fact cheez hai ki logo ko ek dusre par trust krne se darr lagta h kyu?? kyuki logo ko khudki intelligence par bharosa nhi h ki wo dhokha kha jayenge..unhe dar lagta hai ki bharosa krne par unhe dhokha bhi mil sakta hai..unhe khud ki intelligence par bharosa nhi hai..ki wo dhokha kha sakte hai...
there is only one thing in life that conquers death and that is love..mai aap sabko ek hi baat bolunga..ki fear ko itni attention mt do..agar aap sochte ho ki aapko death se darr lagta h to aap sachmuch me darte jaoge...isliye is par dhyan mt do..bas pyaar karo..har kisi se..unconditionally...aur dekho tumhe darr nhi lagega...magic h love me..trust me..jo bhi aapko darata hai uske andar jao...saare safety measures ek taraf krke..darr me ghus jao...aur dekho ki kya hai ??
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